Traveling
to Bhutan can witness different customs and beliefs. The life of Bhutanese
is inseparable from religion. Every family must have a Buddhist temple. Every
life stage of each person is inseparable from religion. Here, religion and life
are like an inseparable wick, and faith reflects everyone's heart and life.
Generally speaking, in addition to offering
Buddhist scriptures for Buddhist chanting in Bhutanese homes, if a monk visits,
the Buddhist hall is his resting place. Sometimes, the Buddhist hall also
doubles as a VIP guest room. Regardless of the city or the countryside,
Bhutanese still retain the annual family prayer ceremony (Choku) in Buddhist
temples, inviting eminent monks to come to their homes to recite sutras. This
blessing ceremony is more important than the Bhutanese New Year. It is
necessary to choose an auspicious day when brothers and sisters who have worked
hard in other places can return to their hometowns. After the prayer was over,
the roof was replaced with a new flag. If you are invited to participate, don't
miss it. On special occasions, such as the birthday of the Buddha, the day when
the sky descends, or the Dharma assembly led by the Great Dharma King,
believers will visit the Great Buddha in the capital.
Solemn wedding ceremony
Regardless of whether Bhutanese get married
or have children, they cannot do without Buddhist temples. Strictly speaking,
it is blessing and blessing. Usually before the newcomers arrive, the monks
will recite mantras and smoke offerings outside the temple, praying for the
Dharma protectors to complete the ceremony. In Bhutan,
tantra attaches great importance to the relationship between teachers and
teachers, so newcomers who come to the temple first bow to the lama and then
worship the Buddha. After the couple bowed to the lama, the latter led them to
light incense and lamps at the altar of the Three Buddhas and the Eight Great
Bodhisattvas. After the two presented the hada they brought in front of the
Buddha, the lama used the hada that had been hanged in the temple for a long
time before, and collected the hada of merit and blessings such as chanting
sutras, devotion, lighting lanterns, etc., to bless the two of them.
Afterwards, the lama and two people took the seat and performed chanting in
stages. First of all, purify the body, speech and mind and remove obstacles for
the two of them. When the chanting pauses, the service staff prepare butter tea
and raisin butter rice (Dresi) for all present. While continuing to chant the
sutras, the monks offered wine to the Three Jewels, the Dharma protectors, and
the crowd. In some places, the newlyweds are asked to take a sip each after the
wine is served, but here a small spoon is poured into their palms to drink.
After chanting sutras to wish longevity and happiness, they will then send
fruits and betel nut for the two to feed each other. Before the ceremony, the
husband and wife exchanged milk and wine, implying a hundred years of harmony.
The famous Qiuzi Temple
In Bhutan, there is a well-known
child-seeking temple - Chimi Lhakhang (Chimi Lhakhang), which is visited by
couples who are infertile after marriage. Legend has it that there was a mad
Lama Drukpa Kunley (1455–1529) in this temple. He does not strictly observe the
precepts like ordinary monks, but loves to sing and compose poetry, joke, drink
and indulge.
Drukpa Kunlei believes that promoting the
Dharma in a humorous, bold and outstanding way can break people's secular
concepts, that is, attachment and fear, and then find the self-nature and
Buddha-nature in the heart. According to legend, Drukpa Kunlie has boundless
mana, and when the Dochu Pass was occupied by a banshee and threatened people's
lives, he used the "Vajra of Wisdom", that is, the penis to subdue
the demon.
In addition to Buddhas and Bodhisattvas in
Chemi Temple, you can see the statue of Drukpa Kunlie and the stupa made by
him. The way of blessing here is especially special. Everyone, regardless of
gender, receives the blessing of a wooden penis and a bow knocked on the head.
Don't be afraid, this knock will not lead to pregnancy without will and action.
So what should the beggar do? The woman who wants to get pregnant makes a wish
in her heart and holds the huge wooden penis, like holding a baby, and circles
the temple 3 times. Go back to the temple and throw 3 dice, 9, 11, 13 are
excellent numbers. When the lucky number appears, the name is drawn by paper
lottery. If the name is exclusively for girls, the girl will be born. It is
said to be 90% accurate.
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